If you know me at all, you know I hate LOTS of things. Seldom do I hate people, but far too often do I hate things that people do.
One of the things I've done FAR too much lately is watch shitty relationships happen. I bend an ear when necessary. I offer advice when completely needed or I actually feel like I've been thru something similar. But I do hesitate to advise until shit's whack.
A couple should date each other. No one else. Far too often, I find that people are dating entire groups of advisors. And often I find those people decide to knock the advisors out - by advice of an advisor. An never have I seen those relationships work. I HATE when people are in catastrophically horrible relationships and decide to blame it on the fact that they get to much advice - but they decide they're getting too much advice because one of their advisors told them so.
I'm so beyond glad that I am in a stable relationship in which I don't get advice from anyone. And when I do, he's with me and we're asking the same person the same fucking question cuz we're actually in an adult relationship, use our heads and are not dumb shits.
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